Sex & Intimacy Coaching
Grow your true erotic self with confidence. Learn to connect deeply with yourself and others by trusting your intuition. We will work through challenges together to help you to know your truth. With this experimental approach you will learn and have the opportunity to learn something new in each session. Together, we get to practice and experience introspection, compassion, and love in the moment. We don't just aim for transformation - we embody it. Embrace and reveal your authentic self with me.
Finding the right formula
“Attraction + Obstacle = Excitement”
The Erotic Mind, Jack Morin, PhD
As humans, we are unique in what draws us to others. Attraction with the right amount of resistance along with open communication can create amazing connections and experiences.
Deliberate vs. Tactical
It’s easy to get caught up in what you can do to get to what you want, but often it isn't clear why you want that in the first place. Understanding the deeper meaning, even for those lighter connections, can create a more fulfilling experience. My approach is to help you discover your overarching desires and goals for your next relationship.
Instead of looking at tactics, I can help you to align with your core desires.
Together, we will design a coaching plan that has both a strategy along with actionable steps to gain deeper insights and understanding about how to care for yourself, romantic partners and beyond. In a coaching relationship, we have the opportunity to build trust, practice and strengthen communication skills. I will guide you to learn and share boundaries, release shame around what you want and why and help you reveal your core desires.
This is the place to practice conversations, walk through ideas, and get comfortable about your wants, desires, and needs. Ultimately you will learn how to expand your capacity to communicate your boundaries to create deep meaningful connections.
My approach
I want to learn about your story, what drives you and creates excitement in your connections. I approach coaching from a place of curiosity and an opportunity to learn together.
Anchoring in emotional and erotic connection, I combine breath work, talk-based coaching with an invitation to experiment. You will leave each session with ideas, discovery and experience.
My goal is to co-create a coaching experience that aligns with your goals and values. You are always in the driver seat!
Meet Julia
I am so glad you are here!!
I love connecting with people and seeing what excites them and what ultimately makes them thrive! I have a desire for meaningful connections both personally and professionally. My curiosity for humans and how we grow, learn and love together has been a natural thread throughout my life. With coaching, I get the opportunity to work alongside my clients to help them to come from a place of wonder on how they grow and love within their most important relationships, especially with themselves. Having the privilege to witness and facilitate ways of connections with individuals and couples, as individuals, together is something I treasure.
Although I am an extrovert, I find great power in reflective and restorative time. My love languages are physical affection and quality time. Words that best represent my ideal connections focus on kindness, authenticity, honesty and learning together. I am an optimistic realist.
Growing up in a small town, I was surprised to find my adaptability to the hustle of a city. While I enjoy the fast-paced energy of a city I also crave the balance for connection with nature. Whenever possible, I love to be in the forest on a day hike, enjoying mountain or water views. I also enjoy walks along a beach, preferably with the ocean as my backdrop. I love time in museums, listening to music endlessly in solitude or with friends. I have a love for NYC. I am always excited to explore new views and ways of doing things.
With this important work, I align to science-based knowledge, desire to change along with intuition and energy work to create a healing environment. My goal is to get you to your goal through micro steps. Most importantly, in this safe space I want you to feel seen, heard, and understood. And laugh together a bit too!
Let’s put intention into action!